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We are all a little bit racist

We Are All ‘A Little Bit Racist’ Aren’t We?

Ellen Willoughby
Posted on July 14, 2021

Has anyone else seen Avenue Q? It is the adult version of The Muppets. When I say adult there are quite a few scenes and songs that… well errr put it this way no child should ever see (think muppets doing the karma sutra on stage 😂 ). I went to see the show about 3 years ago and loved it.

The events of the past few days have made me think of it again. Not because I have a thing for muppet porn I hasten to add, but due to one song called “Everyone’s a Little Bit Racist”. The song can be seen at the end of this blog and the words go something like this…

Everyone’s a little bit racist, sometimes.

Doesn’t mean we go around committing hate crimes.

Look around and you will find,

No one’s really color-blind.

Maybe it’s a fact we all should face.

Everyone makes judgments…based on race.

And I for one think those lyrics are spot on. Race is a sociopolitical phenomenon rather than a biological one. We are all brought up in our own areas of the world with our own form of racism. Doesn’t matter what colour skin we have, where we were raised, where we live now, or who our friends are, as the song goes on to state “Bigotry has never been exclusively white”. Racism exists across the world.

We may think we have friends from loads of countries and backgrounds but it does not mean we are not racist. How many of us have made or laughed in the past at race-based jokes, made judgments based on stereotypes, made assumptions because of someone’s skin colour? If we are honest, we ALL have. It is the way of the world, as sad as that may be.

So as much as I personally accept myself and everyone I know is a little bit racist, does it mean that I or (hopefully) anyone I know:

  • Call people names because of it?
  • Beat people up because of it?
  • Rape people because of it?
  • Vandalise property because of it?
  • Not employ people because of it?
  • Not have certain friends because of it?
  • Not go to certain areas of the world because of it?
  • Think people should be persecuted because of it?
  • Think people should be discriminated against because of it?
  • Think people should be separated into different areas because of it?
  • Think people should be displaced because of it?
  • Think we should go to war because of it?
  • Think people should join a racist based political party due to it?
  • Think people should spew hate based social media posts because of it?

No. No. No and NO.

Yes, we all make mistakes when dealing with other people. I know I have mucked up, learnt why and attempted to not do that again.

So yes we are all a little bit racist thanks to the world we live in. But that does not mean we have to act upon that in a negative way that harms others.

EVERYONE is an individual. And whilst race plays a part in our social upbringing as does religion, geography, sex, gender, and so on, it does not define us or anyone else unless we choose to let it. We can choose not to go with views that are discriminatory and cause us to carry out negative actions of body, speech, and mind.

EVERYONE is human and deserves to live a life free from discrimination and all the abuse and harm that comes from that.

Personally, I am glad that there has been such a loud outcry about the racist abuse of the players that has occurred since Sunday’s football match. Abuse like this simply should not be tolerated. The more we come together and speak as one to make it clear that this kind of abuse is no longer acceptable in our society then maybe, just maybe, things will change.

But perhaps, being optimistic, the fact that there has been such a loud and united condemnation of this racist behaviour is a sign that things are already changing for the better.

And for a final bit of humour to end a difficult topic on…here is the Avenue Q song I have been referring to – enjoy and have a harmonious day all.

Love Is Love

Love Is Love

Ellen Willoughby
Posted on May 17, 2021

When I started to date as a teenager back in the early ’90s, life was pretty simple.  Me and a boy walking hand in hand down the street, maybe making out in the park.  Simples.  Then when I started to date girls as well, things were not so simple.  We could not hold hands or we would get called names or worse, beaten up.  Hell no to the idea of making out in the park if we didn’t want an audience who were either overly appreciative of watching girls make out or incredibly hostile – both equally as dangerous.

Love Is Love
Photo by Yoav Hornung on Unsplash

So when a couple of years ago I was with family for a few days, Pride month was all over the news and they said ‘why can’t you just get on with it – no need for all this pride stuff’ I had to explain the above to them.  As a heterosexual straight couple they could go out hand in hand but as a bi-sexual female, I could not with my girlfriend.  Unequal at best, dangerous and life-threatening at worst. 

 
That is why we need Pride for all LGBTQIA+ people.  Whilst some of the world do not agree with the idea that love equals love, no matter who, no matter what gender, sex, sexuality, colour, race, or religion we will always need Pride.  


Homophobia, Transphobia, Biphobia, the list, unfortunately, goes on.  I personally do not get it.  Along with racism, sexism, and all other discriminatory points of view.  I simply do not get the hate and violence that happens in this world.  To me, everyone is human.  Everyone, therefore, is equally deserving of love, compassion and to be able to live out their lives in peace. 


At the end of the day, we all want to be happy.  Happiness does not come from holding negative and discriminatory views of others.  Happiness does not come from hurting others physically or emotionally.  Happiness for ourselves and others only comes from practicing kindness and holding a mind of compassion for all.  When we hold these minds, we just want everyone to be happy and do what we can to help make that happen. 

This is what creates a #harmoniousworld. 

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